tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3011308838357831962.post4384171920309691759..comments2009-06-12T18:11:24.023-07:00~ "C"http://www.blogger.com/profile/08406815015535794873noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3011308838357831962.post-53751134466464086612009-06-12T18:11:24.023-07:002009-06-12T18:11:24.023-07:00Thank you, R11! That's a veru good additional tip. How did I forget that! R-E-S-P-E-C-T!!! Thank you!!!~ "C" a.k.a. Wonder Wifeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08406815015535794873noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3011308838357831962.post-75474418982467597972009-06-12T17:53:55.568-07:002009-06-12T17:53:55.568-07:00Yes excellent advice especially number 3. Plus respect too. If couples aren't 100% sure, then they should not get married. It's best to rethink it than to regret it.Reviewer11http://reviewer11.bravejournal.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3011308838357831962.post-58166659524438144752009-06-12T11:41:45.751-07:002009-06-12T11:41:45.751-07:00Thanks for sharing, Cindy! I backed out from one too. I think I was "engaged" for two weeks but those two weeks were the hardest because I tried my best to let it sit well in my heart and mind and it just never did. Marriage is a commitment for life and I couldn't see myself committing to the guy for life. A temporary relationship, maybe. But a lifetime commitment, certainly not. It's not being selfish but at some point, we only know so much. We only realize things in the face of the possibility of it really coming -- the engagement I mean. When I faced it by getting engaged, that's when reality set in. So I followed my heart and broke it off. It wasn't the most beautiful thing to do, but I had to do it. I'm married to a different man now and I have no regrets.~ "C" a.k.a. Wonder Wifeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08406815015535794873noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3011308838357831962.post-39484231278181819832009-06-12T11:01:20.873-07:002009-06-12T11:01:20.873-07:00It's amazing the amount of couples that get married to fix things. I definitely agree that unless you're 300% sure, you shouldn't go through with it. I backed out of a marriage after six years with someone... I have NEVER regretted it. Everything was okay and fine... but it felt "vanilla".... and I don't know about you, but I want my life to be AWESOME, and not just so-so. I've been on my own for about four years now and I'm happy and peaceful and waiting patiently till Mr. Awesome stops by to sweep me off my feet. Teee heeee! ;-pCindyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00400632986764577294noreply@blogger.com